Do you think that dating a cat lady is easy? Well, I have to say that it can be if you read this article carefully. There are a few things that you must know before you go ahead and ask a cat lady out. Just have in mind that cat ladies are creatures that might appear weird to some people, but they are very special.
1. This woman proudly wears the title “a cat lady”
Don’t be fooled that they are embarrassed by being called cat ladies. The relationship between a woman and her cat is unique, similar to a man and his dog in a story by Jack London. Only in this case, the woman sits on the couch with her cat watching TV. They are both independent but enjoy each other’s company.
2. Cats are more emotionally intelligent than man
When dating a cat lady, don’t send her idiotic text messages. She won’t think twice to ignore you and get comfortable with her cat. She will understand her.
3. Don’t comment on how much she spends on cat food
This is a red area where you shouldn’t even think about going. Forget about the judgmental comments like: “You spent so much money on fancy kibbles?” Trust me, you won’t see her name on your phone again.
4. Same goes for illness
If you’re dating a cat lady and she is worried about her cat’s health, don’t ever say that it’s nothing. Trying to minimize the medical problem will only make things worse.
5. When dating a cat lady don’t expect too many parties
Sorry, but you need to realize that the girls who love cats are often antisocial. They would much rather sit at home with their cats (or with you and the cats) than to go out and meet people.
6. Don’t pretend to be allergic to cats
Some guys (and people in general) often say that they are allergic to cats simply because they can’t stand them. They use this as an excuse not to be around them. If you are one of those guys, well, move along. The cat lady will recognize if you are lying.
7. But if you do love cats…
Well, this goes without saying. If you are a cat lover too, well there is no need to explain that her heart is open for you.
8. Don’t interrupt her cat stories
As a cat lady, she will tell you so many stories about her cats. Don’t even think about changing the subject or interrupt her in the middle of the story.
9. It would be nice to ask her about them
Showing interest in her cats will make her feel so happy. She will appreciate it even if she knows that you are just being kind.
And the most important thing to remember is that…
10. You are replaceable, but cats are permanent!
So, if you do any of these things or don’t accept her cats, you can kiss her goodbye!